Women of the Word: Grateful Women

by Water On Thirsty Land | Nov 25, 2020 | Bible Studies, Deep Bible Studies, Deep Study Series, Women of the Word Series

Throughout scripture we see some amazing examples of faithful gratitude from both men and women. Gratitude is an often overlooked quality, and when looking at these wonderful examples it is easy to feel like their gratitude is extraordinary and unrealistic. God calls on us, though, to express and display gratefulness to Him in all things and we are told that through Christ all things are possible. In order to be filled with extraordinary gratitude for Him we must cling to Him, recognizing His works, and remember He is God, He is in control, and He keeps His promises. We have a God who provides all He knows that we need, even going so far as to send His Son to die so that we may be forgiven of our sins and saved from eternal separation from Him. From this massive act He has done for us all the way down to the very breath we breathe and the beat of our hearts, we have so much to be grateful to Him for.

I rejoiced in the Lord greatly that now at length you have revived your concern for me. You were indeed concerned for me, but you had no opportunity. Not that I am speaking of being in need, for I have learned in whatever situation I am to be content. I know how to be brought low, and I know how to abound. In any and every circumstance, I have learned the secret of facing plenty and hunger, abundance and need. I can do all things through him who strengthens me. Philippians 4:10-13 ESV

What is biblical gratitude?

Zondervan’s Bible Dictionary defines gratitude as the “condition or quality of being grateful; an emotion or sentiment of thankfulness.” It then goes on to explain that nothing “more adequately recalls the nature of biblical faith than gratitude or thanksgiving.” In our study on Faithful Women we dove into what biblical faith looks like, and many examples of faithfulness in scripture. When we look at the Hebrew words, yadah (Strong’s H3034) which translates “to praise” and “to confess” and towdah (Strong’s H8426) which translates to “thanksgiving”, we can dive into the true nature of biblical thanksgiving, why we need it, and how it relates to our faith.

And she conceived again and bore a son, and said, “This time I will praise the LORD.” Therefore she called his name Judah. Then she ceased bearing. Genesis 29:35 ESV

“For this I will praise you, O LORD, among the nations, and sing praises to your name. 2 Samuel 22:50 ESV

Oh give thanks to the LORD; call upon his name; make known his deeds among the peoples! 1 Chronicles 16:8 ESV

that my glory may sing your praise and not be silent. O LORD my God, I will give thanks to you forever! Psalm 30:12 ESV

Throughout the Old Testament we see constant themes of thanksgiving, such as David, Daniel, Solomon and Hezekiah all giving thanks and praising the Lord in varying circumstances, as well as Israel’s gratitude to God. They set an incredible example for us that no matter what we face in life God is worthy of praising, thanking, and worshiping. There are a multitude of reasons to be grateful to God and there is no shortage of examples throughout the New Testament as well.

Otherwise, if you give thanks with your spirit, how can anyone in the position of an outsider say “Amen” to your thanksgiving when he does not know what you are saying? 1 Corinthians 14:16 ESV

Why are you cast down, O my soul, and why are you in turmoil within me? Hope in God; for I shall again praise him, my salvation and my God. Psalm 43:5 ESV

While I was speaking and praying, confessing my sin and the sin of my people Israel, and presenting my plea before the Lord my God for the holy hill of my God, while I was speaking in prayer, the man Gabriel, whom I had seen in the vision at the first, came to me in swift flight at the time of the evening sacrifice. He made me understand, speaking with me and saying, “O Daniel, I have now come out to give you insight and understanding. At the beginning of your pleas for mercy a word went out, and I have come to tell it to you, for you are greatly loved. Therefore consider the word and understand the vision. Daniel 9:20-23 ESV

Why should we be grateful to God?

God is the reason we have life, and He provides everything that we have, down to the very molecules we are made of, the air we breath, the blood in our veins. He wakes us up in the morning, makes us sleep at night, and carries us through every day’s events. He provides what He knows is needed, right, and good even before we know we need it or when we have no idea what we really need. We should be thankful for His works, provisions, as well as for who He is to us.

Then one of them, when he saw that he was healed, turned back, praising God with a loud voice; and he fell on his face at Jesus’ feet, giving him thanks. Now he was a Samaritan. Luke 17:15-16 ESV

Let there be no filthiness nor foolish talk nor crude joking, which are out of place, but instead let there be thanksgiving. Ephesians 5:4

And let the peace of Christ rule in your hearts, to which indeed you were called in one body. And be thankful. Colossians 3:15 ESV

Not only are we commanded to praise and thank God, but it is pleasing to Him when we do so. Pleasing God who does so much to care for us is the least we can do as a sign of appreciation for the magnitude of His presence in our lives. We also see Christ set the example for us, the Son of God Himself praying to God the Father, thanking Him, praising Him, worshiping Him and if Jesus is praising God, how much more should we?

It is good to give thanks to the Lord , to sing praises to your name, O Most High; to declare your steadfast love in the morning, and your faithfulness by night, to the music of the lute and the harp, to the melody of the lyre. For you, O Lord , have made me glad by your work; at the works of your hands I sing for joy. Psalm 92:1-4 ESV

Offer to God a sacrifice of thanksgiving, and perform your vows to the Most High, and call upon me in the day of trouble; I will deliver you, and you shall glorify me.” Psalm 50:14-15 ESV

Let your reasonableness be known to everyone. The Lord is at hand; do not be anxious about anything, but in everything by prayer and supplication with thanksgiving let your requests be made known to God. And the peace of God, which surpasses all understanding, will guard your hearts and your minds in Christ Jesus. Philippians 4:5-7 ESV

Christ sets an amazing example for us in that even as the Son of God, God in the flesh, He gave thanks to God the Father in daily things as well as in extreme circumstances. He also commanded His followers to likewise give thanks. He exemplifies how to graciously lift thanks for our Heavenly Father in all things.

At that time Jesus declared, “I thank you, Father, Lord of heaven and earth, that you have hidden these things from the wise and understanding and revealed them to little children; yes, Father, for such was your gracious will. Matthew 11:25-26 ESV

Now as they were eating, Jesus took bread, and after blessing it broke it and gave it to the disciples, and said, “Take, eat; this is my body.” And he took a cup, and when he had given thanks he gave it to them, saying, “Drink of it, all of you, for this is my blood of the covenant, which is poured out for many for the forgiveness of sins. I tell you I will not drink again of this fruit of the vine until that day when I drink it new with you in my Father’s kingdom.” Matthew 26:26-29

Jesus then took the loaves, and when he had given thanks, he distributed them to those who were seated. So also the fish, as much as they wanted. John 6:11 ESV

We even see that the creatures in Heaven worship and praise God, and that we, too, will praise Him in eternity with full and grateful hearts. This is the hope to come, that we will get to rest in His eternal presence and express our love and gratitude for all He has and will do for us in life and after. Again, if even the creatures of Heaven praise God, how much more should we?

And the four living creatures, each of them with six wings, are full of eyes all around and within, and day and night they never cease to say, “Holy, holy, holy, is the Lord God Almighty, who was and is and is to come!” And whenever the living creatures give glory and honor and thanks to him who is seated on the throne, who lives forever and ever, the twenty-four elders fall down before him who is seated on the throne and worship him who lives forever and ever. They cast their crowns before the throne, saying, “Worthy are you, our Lord and God, to receive glory and honor and power, for you created all things, and by your will they existed and were created.” Revelation 4:8-11 ESV

What should we be grateful for?

Sometimes it is difficult to see what we have to be grateful for in the first place. This season we are all in is a great example of that. Our world, nation, communities and households are filled with uncertainties, stress and anxiety, sickness, danger, hostility and a growing sense of anarchy. No matter which way you look at it, the world is getting very dark and that can feel awfully suffocating. We are in a time that feels like there is less and less to be grateful for, but honestly there is even more to be grateful for. We have an opportunity to be reminded of where our trust should rest, where our hope comes from, and who promises to provide and protect.

Praise the Lord ! Oh give thanks to the Lord , for he is good, for his steadfast love endures forever! Psalm 106:1 ESV

God is always good, merciful and filled with grace. It is through His goodness, mercy and grace that we are here and have the gift and opportunity to come to Him and be saved by the blood of Jesus. Christ died to bring us into a true salvation relationship with God so that we could be saved from the fate of eternal separation from God, and therefore eternal separation from all that is good and love. Our faith in the Lord is made firm through our acceptance of the blood of Jesus that was spilled for us. We then get to receive the Holy Spirit as a guide in this life in order to become more like Christ, and bring others into a saving faith relationship with Him as well to share in these many gifts and blessings.

He who supplies seed to the sower and bread for food will supply and multiply your seed for sowing and increase the harvest of your righteousness. You will be enriched in every way to be generous in every way, which through us will produce thanksgiving to God. For the ministry of this service is not only supplying the needs of the saints but is also overflowing in many thanksgivings to God. By their approval of this service, they will glorify God because of your submission that comes from your confession of the gospel of Christ, and the generosity of your contribution for them and for all others, while they long for you and pray for you, because of the surpassing grace of God upon you. Thanks be to God for his inexpressible gift! 2 Corinthians 9:10-15 ESV

“We give thanks to you, Lord God Almighty, who is and who was, for you have taken your great power and begun to reign. Revelation 11:17 ESV

For by grace you have been saved through faith. And this is not your own doing; it is the gift of God, not a result of works, so that no one may boast. For we are his workmanship, created in Christ Jesus for good works, which God prepared beforehand, that we should walk in them. Ephesians 2:8-10 ESV

Not only did God offer a perfect and unimaginable means for us to come into relationship with Him, but He then includes us in His plans to bring others into this relationship with Him as well. He chooses to use sinners like us for His perfect plan. We are called to share His truth, love and light throughout the world to penetrate the growing sense of darkness that is running rampant. He is unfathomably generous and merciful toward us and calls on us to be generous with others in the sharing of blessings we receive, as well as the truth, light and love He instills in us to display our gratitude for Him. God literally provides everything we have, and does so that we may be generous with those He places in our lives as an act of praise and worship to Him. This is not just material or financial provisions, but spiritual, mental, and physical as well. He knows all of our needs even better than we do. He has our whole future laid out before us, goes before us, and prepares the way for us. He has already solved all the problems and we are just catching up to Him. That is absolutely worth praising! We don’t have to worry because He is in control and is holding it all in His hands, working it all out for the good of those who love Him. Gratitude doesn’t even touch what we should feel and express in response to this level of provision.

And we know that for those who love God all things work together for good, for those who are called according to his purpose. Romans 8:28 ESV

The one who observes the day, observes it in honor of the Lord. The one who eats, eats in honor of the Lord, since he gives thanks to God, while the one who abstains, abstains in honor of the Lord and gives thanks to God. For none of us lives to himself, and none of us dies to himself. Romans 14:6-7 ESV

And my God will supply every need of yours according to his riches in glory in Christ Jesus. Philippians 4:19 ESV

Therefore do not be anxious, saying, ‘What shall we eat?’ or ‘What shall we drink?’ or ‘What shall we wear?’ For the Gentiles seek after all these things, and your heavenly Father knows that you need them all. Matthew 6:31-32 ESV

God calls on us to serve Him by serving people. He grants us with wisdom, strength and anything else we need in order to serve Him in the ways He calls each of us to. He appoints and trains up leaders, and puts each member of the Body of Christ in its place, creating balance and unity so that each part is doing their equally vital role, strengthening and adding to His Kingdom. The fact He uses us to serve Him is mind-blowing but so worthy of praise. He chooses to use those who are not even worthy of the salvation He made such sacrifice to provide in order to bring more people into that same salvation relationship.

To you, O God of my fathers, I give thanks and praise, for you have given me wisdom and might, and have now made known to me what we asked of you, for you have made known to us the king’s matter.” Daniel 2:23 ESV

I give thanks to my God always for you because of the grace of God that was given you in Christ Jesus, that in every way you were enriched in him in all speech and all knowledge— even as the testimony about Christ was confirmed among you— so that you are not lacking in any gift, as you wait for the revealing of our Lord Jesus Christ, who will sustain you to the end, guiltless in the day of our Lord Jesus Christ. God is faithful, by whom you were called into the fellowship of his Son, Jesus Christ our Lord. 1 Corinthians 1:4-9

I appeal to you therefore, brothers, by the mercies of God, to present your bodies as a living sacrifice, holy and acceptable to God, which is your spiritual worship. Romans 12:1 ESV

For you were called to freedom, brothers. Only do not use your freedom as an opportunity for the flesh, but through love serve one another. Galatians 5:13 ESV

We have so much to be thankful for, and so many incredible examples of faithful gratitude throughout God’s Word. Expressing gratitude in all circumstances is an essential part of growing faith in Him. As we grow in gratitude we develop into the character of the Bride of Christ God calls on us to become (read more).

Let us rejoice and exult and give him the glory, for the marriage of the Lamb has come, and his Bride has made herself ready; it was granted her to clothe herself with fine linen, bright and pure”— for the fine linen is the righteous deeds of the saints. And the angel said to me, “Write this: Blessed are those who are invited to the marriage supper of the Lamb.” And he said to me, “These are the true words of God.” Revelation 19:7-9 ESV

giving thanks always and for everything to God the Father in the name of our Lord Jesus Christ, submitting to one another out of reverence for Christ. Ephesians 5:20-21 ESV

Love is patient and kind; love does not envy or boast; it is not arrogant or rude. It does not insist on its own way; it is not irritable or resentful; it does not rejoice at wrongdoing, but rejoices with the truth. Love bears all things, believes all things, hopes all things, endures all things. Love never ends. 1 Corinthians 13:4-8a ESV

But the fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness, self-control; against such things there is no law. And those who belong to Christ Jesus have crucified the flesh with its passions and desires. If we live by the Spirit, let us also keep in step with the Spirit. Let us not become conceited, provoking one another, envying one another. Galatians 5:22-26 ESV

Put on then, as God’s chosen ones, holy and beloved, compassionate hearts, kindness, humility, meekness, and patience, bearing with one another and, if one has a complaint against another, forgiving each other; as the Lord has forgiven you, so you also must forgive. And above all these put on love, which binds everything together in perfect harmony. And let the peace of Christ rule in your hearts, to which indeed you were called in one body. And be thankful. Let the word of Christ dwell in you richly, teaching and admonishing one another in all wisdom, singing psalms and hymns and spiritual songs, with thankfulness in your hearts to God. And whatever you do, in word or deed, do everything in the name of the Lord Jesus, giving thanks to God the Father through him. Colossians 3:12-17 ESV

God does not call on us to work at it alone, but provides His Holy Spirit to guide us, change us, and fill us up with His fruit and produce the heart He longs for us to have toward Him as well as toward all of His creation and plan. We certainly don’t always know what is ahead, but we can rest assured and be grateful that He is working ahead of us, He is in control, and He is always good and trustworthy.

But the Helper, the Holy Spirit, whom the Father will send in my name, he will teach you all things and bring to your remembrance all that I have said to you. John 14:26 ESV

Likewise the Spirit helps us in our weakness. For we do not know what to pray for as we ought, but the Spirit himself intercedes for us with groanings too deep for words. Romans 8:26 ESV

And I will give you a new heart, and a new spirit I will put within you. And I will remove the heart of stone from your flesh and give you a heart of flesh. And I will put my Spirit within you, and cause you to walk in my statutes and be careful to obey my rules. Ezekiel 36:26-27 ESV

Women of the Word: Leading Women

by Water On Thirsty Land | Nov 18, 2020 | Bible Studies, Deep Bible Studies, Deep Study Series, Women of the Word Series

Reading and studying the Word of God should be a priority in the lives of all Christians. In fact, it is something every person should do in order to discern what is true and what is false. God leads each of us in His divine ways toward Him, His Word, and His Wisdom in order to determine that He is very real, and the only means of salvation and eternal life is through accepting and having faith in His Son. It is impossible to determine on our own what truth is, as well as to navigate our purpose and calling in life without the guidance of our Creator. Leadership, for example, is something not everyone is called to, but many desire to be.

The idea of leading people is enticing. There may be a sense of power and pride over such a position, and the ability to influence and change people in all kinds of ways. This, though, is precisely why we must not take up the reigns of leadership unless we are so called by our Heavenly Father. Doing so without His commission could likely result in leading people astray and also taking an opportunity from someone else who is called to lead. Typically when someone without the gift and calling of leadership takes up those reigns they lack the wisdom necessary and end up teaching falsities. Most often it is done out of ignorance and pride, and sometimes from good intentions, but still has negative results.

False teachers and heresy were a serious problem in the church of Ephesus. Timothy was sent to Ephesus by Paul to help the people combat false teachings and establish structure in their church. The letters of Titus and first and second Timothy are Pastoral Epistles authored by Paul to specific individuals, about specific congregations, during a specific period of time, to address specific problems of false teachers becoming more prevalent in their congregations and the need for more structure within their ministries. At this time, the church in Ephesus was without structure and therefore not well equipped to combat these false teachers. Paul sent Timothy, and this letter to Timothy showing his authority to step in and assist the church of Ephesus, to provide structure and clarify correct doctrinal truths to combat the false teachings that were spreading in Ephesus. This letter is intended to assist in combating false teachers in the church of Ephesus.

As I urged you when I went into Macedonia, stay there in Ephesus so that you may command certain people not to teach false doctrines any longer or to devote themselves to myths and endless genealogies. Such things promote controversial speculations rather than advancing God’s work—which is by faith. The goal of this command is love, which comes from a pure heart and a good conscience and a sincere faith. Some have departed from these and have turned to meaningless talk. They want to be teachers of the law, but they do not know what they are talking about or what they so confidently affirm. We know that the law is good if one uses it properly. 1 Timothy 1:3-8 NIV

We are each responsible for not only seeking after the truth for ourselves but to have an understanding of what the Gospel is in order to combat against what it is not. In order to help equip the church of Ephesus to better discern the difference between true doctrine and false teaching Paul begins his letter by stressing that all are called to Godly living, and addressing some factors of godly gospel living. While Ephesus had specific people causing a specific problem for a specific church, the warning from Paul is just as relevant today. There are false teachers in this world and we must equip ourselves with the knowledge of Truth through submission to God.

First of all, then, I urge that supplications, prayers, intercessions, and thanksgivings be made for all people, for kings and all who are in high positions, that we may lead a peaceful and quiet life, godly and dignified in every way. This is good, and it is pleasing in the sight of God our Savior, who desires all people to be saved and to come to the knowledge of the truth. For there is one God, and there is one mediator between God and men, the man Christ Jesus, who gave himself as a ransom for all, which is the testimony given at the proper time. For this I was appointed a preacher and an apostle (I am telling the truth, I am not lying), a teacher of the Gentiles in faith and truth. 1 Timothy 2:1-7 ESV

Paul establishes some key factors of Godly living that we should focus on in order to be more wisely equipped against false teachings and to recognize true doctrine better.

Prayer:

There is no one right way to pray, but all people are to pray within their personal relationship with God. Paul is reminding the people of the importance of heartfelt prayer, versus flashy outward appearances in how one prays. It is the heart and intention of prayer that God cares about.

if my people who are called by my name humble themselves, and pray and seek my face and turn from their wicked ways, then I will hear from heaven and will forgive their sin and heal their land. 2 Chronicles 7:14 ESV

“And when you pray, do not heap up empty phrases as the Gentiles do, for they think that they will be heard for their many words. Matthew 6:7 ESV

Watch and pray that you may not enter into temptation. The spirit indeed is willing, but the flesh is weak.” Matthew 26:41 ESV

The LORD is near to all who call on him, to all who call on him in truth. Psalm 145:18 ESV

Meekness and Humility:

We are called to be meek and humble, living as examples of Christ in all we do. The culture in Ephesus promoted flashy attire and outward appearance to show social status or attractiveness, and Paul was reminding them that God cares about inward beauty. We should show meekness and humility, and be dignified and modest so as to not draw attention to our outward appearances.

Put on then, as God's chosen ones, holy and beloved, compassionate hearts, kindness, humility, meekness, and patience, bearing with one another and, if one has a complaint against another, forgiving each other; as the Lord has forgiven you, so you also must forgive. Colossians 3:12-13 ESV

I therefore, a prisoner for the Lord, urge you to walk in a manner worthy of the calling to which you have been called, with all humility and gentleness, with patience, bearing with one another in love, eager to maintain the unity of the Spirit in the bond of peace. Ephesians 4:1-3 ESV

Do nothing from selfish ambition or conceit, but in humility count others more significant than yourselves. Let each of you look not only to his own interests, but also to the interests of others. Philippians 2:3-4 ESV

If possible, so far as it depends on you, live peaceably with all. Romans 12:18 ESV

Salvation:

God desires all to be saved, but Paul is reminding the people of Ephesus that this requires knowledge (and acceptance) of the Truth, and that they are in danger because of the false teachings being taught.

For by grace you have been saved through faith. And this is not your own doing; it is the gift of God, not a result of works, so that no one may boast. Ephesians 2:8-9 ESV

And there is salvation in no one else, for there is no other name under heaven given among men by which we must be saved.” Acts 4:12 ESV

Jesus said to him, “I am the way, and the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father except through me. John 14:6 ESV

And Peter said to them, “Repent and be baptized every one of you in the name of Jesus Christ for the forgiveness of your sins, and you will receive the gift of the Holy Spirit. Acts 2:38 ESV

For God did not send his Son into the world to condemn the world, but in order that the world might be saved through him. Whoever believes in him is not condemned, but whoever does not believe is condemned already, because he has not believed in the name of the only Son of God. John 3:17-18 ESV

Modesty:

Modesty by Biblical definition, according to the original Greek, is a sense of honor that seeks to prevent shame, is respectable and has self-control. We can display outward modesty by striving to be honorable to God in our appearance, which is being described here as refraining from flashing material wealth and earthly status, as well as not presenting yourself in such a way to attract attention by your appearances. We should all present ourselves in a manner that shows honor and respect to our bodies as the temple of God.

I desire then that in every place the men should pray, lifting holy hands without anger or quarreling; likewise also that women should adorn themselves in respectable apparel, with modesty and self-control, not with braided hair and gold or pearls or costly attire, but with what is proper for women who profess godliness—with good works. 1 Timothy 2:8-10 ESV

Strong’s G2887 - kosmios - ko'-sme-os - respectable: well arranged, seemly, modest.

Strong’s G127 - aidōs - i-do's - propriety: a sense of shame or honour, modesty, bashfulness, reverence, regard for others, respect. Precedes and prevents the shameful act, reflects upon its consequences in the shame it brings with it.

Strong’s G4997 - sōphrosynē - so-fro-sü'-na - moderation: soundness of mind; self-control, sobriety.

Or do you not know that your body is a temple of the Holy Spirit within you, whom you have from God? You are not your own, for you were bought with a price. So glorify God in your body. 1 Corinthians 6:19-20 ESV

Strength and dignity are her clothing, and she laughs at the time to come. She opens her mouth with wisdom, and the teaching of kindness is on her tongue. Proverbs 31:25-26 ESV

Men and women should both display Biblical modesty and refrain from flashy outward appearances, and instead focus on God and how to honor and glorify Him in all our ways, conduct and appearances. Paul is stating that with proper outward appearance and conduct we are better able to focus on and display godliness by the fruit of the Spirit through good works as the evidence of true faith. True faith is found when it stands on true doctrine and displayed by good works done in the fruits of the Spirit.

But the fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness, self-control; against such things there is no law. And those who belong to Christ Jesus have crucified the flesh with its passions and desires. If we live by the Spirit, let us also keep in step with the Spirit. Let us not become conceited, provoking one another, envying one another. Galatians 5:22-26 ESV

Test All Things:

As we strive to adhere to true doctrine we must test all things through the Holy Spirit and check our intentions behind our actions. We should be seeking God’s truth with the intention to follow His truth, no matter how difficult it may be or what we may need to sacrifice in order to adhere to His truth. It is not enough to merely know the truth, we must also intend to follow the truth. The intent of the heart is what we will be judged by, for actions done with the wrong intention are still wrong.

“You have heard that it was said to those of old, ‘You shall not murder; and whoever murders will be liable to judgment.’ But I say to you that everyone who is angry with his brother will be liable to judgment; whoever insults his brother will be liable to the council; and whoever says, ‘You fool!’ will be liable to the hell of fire. Matthew 5:21-22 ESV

The people were being led astray from godliness and modest living because of false teachings. We are instructed to test and filter all things through the Word of God to “discern what is the will of God”; to determine whether they line up with the Word of God or not. If any teaching that claims to be Biblical does not line up with the Word of God, it should be considered “of the world” and therefore a false teaching that we should not follow or condone. By failing to test and filter all things through God’s Word, and falling into false teachings, we risk falling away from Truth itself and therefore away from God and the life He calls us to live.

but test everything; hold fast what is good. 1 Thessalonians 5:21 ESV

Beloved, do not believe every spirit, but test the spirits to see whether they are from God, for many false prophets have gone out into the world. 1 John 4:1 ESV

Do not be conformed to this world, but be transformed by the renewal of your mind, that by testing you may discern what is the will of God, what is good and acceptable and perfect. Romans 12:2 ESV

At the time of Paul’s letter to Timothy there were “prophetesses” of Artemis promoting Gnosticism in Ephesus, teaching incorrect doctrine and influencing the women of the church by their teachings. Women of the time were adorning themselves with flashy attire likely to show their social status and material wealth, being influenced by the false teaching, and seemingly attempting to usurp the men’s position of head of the family and leaders of the church. Women of the time often were also less educated than men, and would have had much less teaching and understanding of scripture than men, which would have placed them as less wise in the Word, and more likely to mis-understand, mis-interpret, and mis-teach the Word of God. Widows were also heavily targeted by false teachers because they were so easily persuaded.

But false prophets also arose among the people, just as there will be false teachers among you, who will secretly bring in destructive heresies, even denying the Master who bought them, bringing upon themselves swift destruction. And many will follow their sensuality, and because of them the way of truth will be blasphemed. And in their greed they will exploit you with false words. Their condemnation from long ago is not idle, and their destruction is not asleep. 2 Peter 2:1-3 ESV

Submission:

Paul is striving to harmonize the church with the Creator’s design for home and community. This is a sense of balance between the roles and positions of men and women. Each person is given their roles by God, and men and women have their roles in order to find balance in relationships and leadership. Remember, God made women to be a helper to man, and man was called to love and care for women.

This is the book of the generations of Adam. When God created man, he made him in the likeness of God. Male and female he created them, and he blessed them and named them Man when they were created. Genesis 5:1-2 ESV

giving thanks always and for everything to God the Father in the name of our Lord Jesus Christ, submitting to one another out of reverence for Christ. Ephesians 5:20-21 ESV

Wives, submit to your own husbands, as to the Lord. For the husband is the head of the wife even as Christ is the head of the church, his body, and is himself its Savior. Now as the church submits to Christ, so also wives should submit in everything to their husbands. Husbands, love your wives, as Christ loved the church and gave himself up for her, that he might sanctify her, having cleansed her by the washing of water with the word, so that he might present the church to himself in splendor, without spot or wrinkle or any such thing, that she might be holy and without blemish. In the same way husbands should love their wives as their own bodies. He who loves his wife loves himself. For no one ever hated his own flesh, but nourishes and cherishes it, just as Christ does the church, because we are members of his body. “Therefore a man shall leave his father and mother and hold fast to his wife, and the two shall become one flesh.” This mystery is profound, and I am saying that it refers to Christ and the church. However, let each one of you love his wife as himself, and let the wife see that she respects her husband.' Ephesians 5:22-33 ESV

Strong’s G5293: Submit - hypotássō, hoop-ot-as'-so; to subordinate; reflexively, to obey:—be under obedience, put under, subdue unto, subject, be in subjection, submit self unto.

This use of “submit” is found over 30 times in the New Testament, and is referring to the submissive relationship we are called to have with God out of respect, love and reverence for Him. As a marriage is a representation of the relationship between Christ and His Church, so is this submission between husband and wife - to be subject to Him, obedient to His will, out of love and reverence. This submission is a mutual balance where husband and wife submit one to another, as we are also called within our marriage relationship and individually to submit to Christ. Wives are called to submit all things to their husband’s leadership as the head of the family, as the Church is called to submit all things to the will and leadership of God. Husbands are called to submit themselves to their wife, offering themselves up fully in love for their wife as Christ offered Himself up for the Church, His bride, providing for all her needs and caring for her in all things. This submission is not providing an excuse for abuse, dominance, intolerance, dictatorship, tyrannical treatment, or participation in sin from either husband or wife. It is also not to be mistaken for women not being allowed to participate in decision making, or discouragement for women to express themselves.

Let a woman learn quietly with all submissiveness. I do not permit a woman to teach or to exercise authority over a man; rather, she is to remain quiet. For Adam was formed first, then Eve; and Adam was not deceived, but the woman was deceived and became a transgressor. Yet she will be saved through childbearing—if they continue in faith and love and holiness, with self-control. 1 Timothy 2:11-15 ESV

Paul is saying that the women of Ephesus should learn with quiet respect toward those in authority and teaching positions. This is not saying they should never speak, never lead, or never teach, but is saying they should show respect and meekness as they learn from truthful teachers in Ephesus and reinforces the balance of God’s design.

Strong’s G2271 - hēsychia - ha-sü-khe'-ä - quietly: Quietnes, description of the life of one who stays at home doing his own work, and does not officiously meddle with the affairs of others.

Strong’s G3129 - manthanō - män-thä'-no - learn: to learn, be apprised

1. to increase one's knowledge, to be increased in knowledge
2. to hear, be informed
3. to learn by use and practice
4. to be in the habit of, accustomed to

Strong’s G5292 - hypotagē - hü-po-tä-ga' - submissiveness: the act of subjecting, obedience, subjection

By their approval of this service, they will glorify God because of your submission that comes from your confession of the gospel of Christ, and the generosity of your contribution for them and for all others, 2 Corinthians 9:13 ESV

to them we did not yield in submission even for a moment, so that the truth of the gospel might be preserved for you. Galatians 2:5 ESV

giving thanks always and for everything to God the Father in the name of our Lord Jesus Christ, submitting to one another out of reverence for Christ. Ephesians 5:20-21 ESV

Balance:

We should strive for balance according to God’s design for men and women in places of leadership and authority. Within an assembled church, Paul encourages the men of higher education to preside over the church, to teach correct doctrine and display Godly living to the congregation. All are encouraged to respect those placed in positions of authority and strive to learn correct doctrine and refrain from false teachings. We must all recognize that each individual who has a relationship with God will be called by Him according to His purpose, and we must respect and obey how He calls each person to serve Him.

For by the grace given to me I say to everyone among you not to think of himself more highly than he ought to think, but to think with sober judgment, each according to the measure of faith that God has assigned. For as in one body we have many members, and the members do not all have the same function, so we, though many, are one body in Christ, and individually members one of another. Having gifts that differ according to the grace given to us, let us use them: if prophecy, in proportion to our faith; if service, in our serving; the one who teaches, in his teaching; the one who exhorts, in his exhortation; the one who contributes, in generosity; the one who leads, with zeal; the one who does acts of mercy, with cheerfulness. Romans 12:3-8 ESV

Remember your leaders, those who spoke to you the word of God. Consider the outcome of their way of life, and imitate their faith. Hebrews 13:7 ESV

Obey your leaders and submit to them, for they are keeping watch over your souls, as those who will have to give an account. Let them do this with joy and not with groaning, for that would be of no advantage to you. Hebrews 13:17 ESV

Where there is no guidance, a people falls, but in an abundance of counselors there is safety. Proverbs 11:14 ESV

But Peter and the apostles answered, “We must obey God rather than men. Acts 5:29 ESV

Service:

We can reference many places in scripture that identify the God-given placement, roles and responsibilities of men, women, and people in general. It is clear throughout scripture that even women were given authority, places of leadership, and honor by God. We are, both men and women, one with Christ, as well as in relationship with fellow believers as the Body of Christ, in the sense of relationship not in sameness of function. Neither men nor women are rewarded based on their roles in God’s Kingdom, but instead based on their faithful obedience to the assignments God has called them to. To God, men and women are of equal value as His creations, but each is functionally different in order for there to be balance in the Kingdom. Men and women can both receive the same spiritual gifts and blessings.

And he gave the apostles, the prophets, the evangelists, the shepherds and teachers, to equip the saints for the work of ministry, for building up the body of Christ, until we all attain to the unity of the faith and of the knowledge of the Son of God, to mature manhood, to the measure of the stature of the fullness of Christ, so that we may no longer be children, tossed to and fro by the waves and carried about by every wind of doctrine, by human cunning, by craftiness in deceitful schemes. Ephesians 4:11-14 ESV

And Jesus called them to him and said to them, “You know that those who are considered rulers of the Gentiles lord it over them, and their great ones exercise authority over them. But it shall not be so among you. But whoever would be great among you must be your servant, and whoever would be first among you must be slave of all. For even the Son of Man came not to be served but to serve, and to give his life as a ransom for many.” Matthew 10:42-45 ESV

“And it shall come to pass afterward, that I will pour out my Spirit on all flesh; your sons and your daughters shall prophesy, your old men shall dream dreams, and your young men shall see visions. Joel 2:28 ESV

When we see Jesus teach in the home of Martha (Luke 10:38-42), Martha was frustrated with her sister Mary for sitting idly to listen to Jesus teach while Martha was hard at work. Martha had a prideful attitude about serving, and was bitter with her sister for prioritizing her time with Jesus. Unfortunately sometimes we serve with a heart not for Jesus but for our own gains and praises through serving and must be careful that we always have a heart and intention to serve and honor Christ in the ways and times He calls us to. The intention of the heart and the attitude of your spirit greatly impacts your ability to live a godly, gospel life.

But the Lord answered her, “Martha, Martha, you are anxious and troubled about many things, Luke 10:41 ESV

Show hospitality to one another without grumbling. As each has received a gift, use it to serve one another, as good stewards of God’s varied grace: whoever speaks, as one who speaks oracles of God; whoever serves, as one who serves by the strength that God supplies—in order that in everything God may be glorified through Jesus Christ. To him belong glory and dominion forever and ever. Amen. 1 Peter 4:9-11 ESV

For you were called to freedom, brothers. Only do not use your freedom as an opportunity for the flesh, but through love serve one another. Galatians 5:13 ESV

For even the Son of Man came not to be served but to serve, and to give his life as a ransom for many.” Mark 10:45 ESV

And he sat down and called the twelve. And he said to them, “If anyone would be first, he must be last of all and servant of all.” Mark 9:35 ESV

If anyone serves me, he must follow me; and where I am, there will my servant be also. If anyone serves me, the Father will honor him. John 12:26 ESV

“No one can serve two masters, for either he will hate the one and love the other, or he will be devoted to the one and despise the other. You cannot serve God and money. Matthew 6:24 ESV

We need to continually check our hearts that we are Christ-focused in all our ways, and that our worldly responsibilities do not become a snare and hinder us from serving God. Many times we allow for the duties that we have to become a higher priority in our lives than sitting at the feet of Jesus and listening to Him.

Conclusion

As the Bride of Christ, we need to make sure that we do not have our priorities ascue and put worldly things as a higher priority than God. This includes members of our family, our job, and our daily duties. In all our activities, we must live as one fully submitted to Christ and acknowledge Him as our top priority. Paul’s instructions are valuable reminders that God’s design and call for our lives should be prioritized in every way. We must seek Him earnestly, and strive to constantly test to ensure we are adhering to His true doctrine and follow the path He has laid out for us, being watchful of false teachings of the world.

Women of the Word: Faithful Women

by Water On Thirsty Land | Nov 11, 2020 | Bible Studies, Deep Bible Studies, Deep Study Series, Women of the Word Series

In the Old Testament, faith was displayed in a variety of people through their true commitment of themselves to God, and unwavering trust in His promises, and a persistent fidelity and obedience. Throughout the New Testament, though, we see not only incredible examples of faithfulness and faithlessness, but also see God’s clear definitions for us.

We can see that faith means more than mere hope, as in the original word ‘aman. This action word appears in the Old Testament more than 100 times and is likened to the action of a child learning to walk, holding on to its parents as it takes wobbly steps. Even with that descriptive definition, the Greek word for faith, pisteuō, is so much clearer in its definition. In Greek, the word places reliance upon Christ for salvation; by extension, the system of the Gospel truth itself.

By faith we understand that the universe was created by the word of God, so that what is seen was not made out of things that are visible. Hebrews 11:3 ESV

Strong’s H539 - 'aman - faith: to support, confirm, be faithful

1. to stand firm, to trust, to be certain, to believe in
2. stand firm
3. trust, believe

Strong's G4100 - pisteuō - faith: to think to be true, to be persuaded of, to credit, place confidence in

1. in a moral or religious reference
2. used in the NT of the conviction and trust to which a man is impelled by a certain inner and higher prerogative and law of soul
3. to trust in Jesus or God as able to aid either in obtaining or in doing something: saving faith
4. mere acknowledgment of some fact or event: intellectual faith

The faith found by those in the Old Testament is also forward looking. Abraham’s faith was credited to him as righteousness (Genesis 15:6) and that faith was that the Messiah would come. We see the prophecy of the type of Messiah Jesus would be in Isaiah 53. Paul also wrote a great deal about this forward looking faith, that it was not just for their benefit, but also for our own. We get to see the faithfulness of those who must believe it will be, while we believe that it was.

And all these, though commended through their faith, did not receive what was promised, since God had provided something better for us, that apart from us they should not be made perfect. Hebrews 11:39-40 ESV

In hope he believed against hope, that he should become the father of many nations, as he had been told, “So shall your offspring be.” He did not weaken in faith when he considered his own body, which was as good as dead ( since he was about a hundred years old), or when he considered the barrenness of Sarah’s womb. No unbelief made him waver concerning the promise of God, but he grew strong in his faith as he gave glory to God, fully convinced that God was able to do what he had promised. That is why his faith was “counted to him as righteousness.” But the words “it was counted to him” were not written for his sake alone, but for ours also. It will be counted to us who believe in him who raised from the dead Jesus our Lord, who was delivered up for our trespasses and raised for our justification. Romans 4:18-25 ESV

We can look back and identify the features that set apart those who walked in faith of the promise and see what makes up a Godly man or woman. We find the evidence of faith through the fruit of the Spirit being displayed through their actions and their behaviors.

We read that the Spirit brings love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness, self-control. We know that those called by God are His chosen ones, holy and beloved, have compassionate hearts, full of humility, meekness, and patience. They are full of forgiveness for others.

But the fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness, self-control; against such things there is no law. And those who belong to Christ Jesus have crucified the flesh with its passions and desires. If we live by the Spirit, let us also keep in step with the Spirit. Let us not become conceited, provoking one another, envying one another. Galatians 5:22-26 ESV

Put on then, as God’s chosen ones, holy and beloved, compassionate hearts, kindness, humility, meekness, and patience, bearing with one another and, if one has a complaint against another, forgiving each other; as the Lord has forgiven you, so you also must forgive. And above all these put on love, which binds everything together in perfect harmony. And let the peace of Christ rule in your hearts, to which indeed you were called in one body. And be thankful. Let the word of Christ dwell in you richly, teaching and admonishing one another in all wisdom, singing psalms and hymns and spiritual songs, with thankfulness in your hearts to God. And whatever you do, in word or deed, do everything in the name of the Lord Jesus, giving thanks to God the Father through him. Colossians 3:12-17 ESV

We know of many faithful, godly men from throughout the Bible: Noah, Abraham, and David, to name a few. There are also many faithful, godly women found throughout the Bible that may be a little less known than their male counterparts.

We have just started looking into some of those women and have seen how Ruth and Esther were faithful and obedient to God. We have met the woman at the well and the woman with the issue of blood who stepped out in faith and sought after Jesus.

Know Them by Their Fruits

Being able to know and recognize the fruits of the Spirit is an important task that we all need to spend studious time in. These characteristics are the evidence of God in our lives. Our faith, the faith assured in the hope of Jesus, can change us from the inside out.

Paul speaks to us about love, the first listed fruits of the Spirit, giving us the definition of what love is according to God. The greatest of all commandments is to love the LORD your God will all your heart, with all your might, and with all your mind. The second is similar to the first, to love your neighbor as you do yourself. No man hates his own flesh, but rather nourishes and cherishes it, and so should we.

Love is patient and kind; love does not envy or boast; it is not arrogant or rude. It does not insist on its own way; it is not irritable or resentful; it does not rejoice at wrongdoing, but rejoices with the truth. Love bears all things, believes all things, hopes all things, endures all things. Love never ends. As for prophecies, they will pass away; as for tongues, they will cease; as for knowledge, it will pass away. 1 Corinthians 13:4-8 ESV

From stepping out in love, we receive the gift of joy from the Holy Spirit. This joy isn’t circumstantial, this joy sustains us through the highs and lows of life. This joy comes not from us, but from the Holy Spirit dwelling within us.

May the God of hope fill you with all joy and peace in believing, so that by the power of the Holy Spirit you may abound in hope. Romans 15:13 ESV

With that love comes a peace that surpasses human understanding. That peace gives us security in our hope of Christ. Through that peace comes freedom. Freedom from anxiety and worry, freedom from fears that come from insecurities about the future.

I have said these things to you, that in me you may have peace. In the world you will have tribulation. But take heart; I have overcome the world.” John 16:33 ESV

In peace I will both lie down and sleep; for you alone, O Lord, make me dwell in safety. Psalm 4:8 ESV

Patience, the ability for longsuffering, is found while actively waiting for God. This waiting is not sitting still but rather serving God through time spent in the service of others or time spent in His Word. Patience is learning to wait on the LORD, to depend on Him for our needs, and to trust that He does and will supply all that we need.

Wait for the LORD; be strong, and let your heart take courage; wait for the LORD! Psalm 27:14

Behold, we consider those blessed who remained steadfast. You have heard of the steadfastness of Job, and you have seen the purpose of the Lord, how the Lord is compassionate and merciful. James 5:11 ESV

Commitment, faithfulness, trusting, all these attributes point us towards the truth found in God. He is faithful, His words never come back empty. We can be fully confident that God, in His time, in His way, will bring about what is good and righteous for His namesake.

Commit your way to the LORD; trust in him, and he will act. Psalm 37:5 ESV

Trust in the LORD forever, for the LORD GOD is an everlasting rock. Isaiah 26:5 ESV

Thus says the LORD: “Cursed is the man who trusts in man and makes flesh his strength, whose heart turns away from the LORD. Jeremiah 17:5 ESV

Through our application of faith, we develop traits such as meekness and humility. In humility, we recognize the magnificent power of God and that there are real and direct consequences for disobedience. In our humility we learn to place others' needs above our own and value those around us in a manner that mirrors God’s love for us.

Let another praise you, and not your own mouth; a stranger, and not your own lips. Proverbs 27:2 ESV

He has put down the mighty from their thrones, And exalted the lowly. Luke 1:52 NKJV

Do nothing from selfish ambition or conceit, but in humility count others more significant than yourselves. Let each of you look not only to his own interests, but also to the interests of others. Philippians 2:3-4 ESV

Through faithfulness to God we learn to trust Him deeper, and apply these beautiful attributes of faithfulness to our lives and relationships, and enact change around us. We must put our faithfulness into action, letting the fruit of the spirit pour out of us into others, planting seeds that lead people closer to Christ. Sometimes our faith can be used to move mountains, sometimes to build bridges, sometimes to stand firm against the winds of change. Whatever seasons life brings with it, faithfulness can keep you centered and focused on the hope we have in Christ and His eternal promises.

Now faith is the assurance of things hoped for, the conviction of things not seen. Hebrews 11:1 ESV

Do you want to be shown, you foolish person, that faith apart from works is useless? Was not Abraham our father justified by works when he offered up his son Isaac on the altar? You see that faith was active along with his works, and faith was completed by his works; and the Scripture was fulfilled that says, “Abraham believed God, and it was counted to him as righteousness”—and he was called a friend of God. You see that a person is justified by works and not by faith alone. And in the same way was not also Rahab the prostitute justified by works when she received the messengers and sent them out by another way? For as the body apart from the spirit is dead, so also faith apart from works is dead. James 2:20-26 ESV

Sometimes seasons bring hardship, persecution, rejection and slander but true faithfulness is standing firm with the LORD and being unmoved by difficult circumstances. We can easily be swayed by the ebbs and flows of culture and life, but God stays true to His promises to provide, protect and lead us on His path to a better future we could never achieve on our own. Just like Esther becoming queen and being in a position to save an entire nation of Jewish people even at the expense of her own life, we never know when God has placed us right in the middle of a difficult situation for a greater purpose beyond ourselves.

“Behold, his soul is puffed up; it is not upright within him, but the righteous shall live by his faith. Habakkuk 2:4 ESV

For I am not ashamed of the gospel, for it is the power of God for salvation to everyone who believes, to the Jew first and also to the Greek. For in it the righteousness of God is revealed from faith for faith, as it is written, “The righteous shall live by faith.” Romans 1:16-17 ESV

Faithfulness to God comes down to - are you willing to be used by God no matter the personal expense; no matter how uncomfortable or even painful it may get? Are you willing to trust God even in the midst of the worst storm beyond what you could ever imagine and still say and believe that He is still good, and still in control? Beyond this, are you willing to do all these things and still bear God's good fruit, displaying His Spirit, His love, and His truth? This is what defines true faithfulness, from both men and women alike.

And I heard the voice of the Lord saying, "Whom shall I send, and who will go for us?" Then I said, "Here I am! Send me." Isaiah 6:8 ESV

“...And who knows whether you have not come to the kingdom for such a time as this?” Esther 4:14b ESV

Be willing to be used by God with an open, loving heart.

Women of the Word: Godly Woman

by Water On Thirsty Land | Nov 4, 2020 | Bible Studies, Deep Bible Studies, Deep Study Series, Women of the Word Series

From the very beginning, God had a design for women. As we embark on this journey through scripture focusing on what God tells and teaches about women, we will set the tone for the whole study by first identifying the characteristics of a Godly woman; a woman of noble character. Through this, we should then understand God’s design a little better, and apply the upcoming studies with more wisdom and discernment.

What characterizes a Godly woman?

You have likely heard that all women should strive to live up to the ideals of the Proverbs 31 Woman. You may also have heard women referenced in regards to the Beatitudes, and how it expands on the qualities women should embody. What you likely have not heard is that these characteristics are not only meant for women. These passages in the Word of God are important for all people, men and women alike, to learn, consider and encourage others to display. This may sound like an extremely bold statement, but hang on with me and let me explain.

An excellent wife who can find? She is far more precious than jewels. The heart of her husband trusts in her, and he will have no lack of gain. She does him good, and not harm, all the days of her life. Proverbs 31:10-12 ESV

It can be difficult for an unmarried woman to read Proverbs 31 and feel that it is relevant to her. Similar feelings are likely to be expressed by a man, or anyone who has no intention or desire to marry. We must apply Proverbs 31 in relation to the rest of what God tells us. We are the Body of Christ, and as such we are the Bride of Christ, His wife, and He is our husband. All of us are wives to our Lord and Savior. When we accept Christ, we are accepting His proposal of marriage and choosing to enter into this relationship as a submissive wife. Yes, even the men. Yes, I did just say submissive, but hang on, we will get there, too.

For your Maker is your husband, the Lord of hosts is his name; and the Holy One of Israel is your Redeemer, the God of the whole earth he is called. Isaiah 54:5 ESV

Let us rejoice and exult and give him the glory, for the marriage of the Lamb has come, and his Bride has made herself ready; it was granted her to clothe herself with fine linen, bright and pure”— for the fine linen is the righteous deeds of the saints. And the angel said to me, “Write this: Blessed are those who are invited to the marriage supper of the Lamb.” And he said to me, “These are the true words of God.” Revelation 19:7-9 ESV

Then came one of the seven angels who had the seven bowls full of the seven last plagues and spoke to me, saying, “Come, I will show you the Bride, the wife of the Lamb.” And he carried me away in the Spirit to a great, high mountain, and showed me the holy city Jerusalem coming down out of heaven from God, Revelation 21:9-10 ESV

The relationship between God and His people, His Church, is regarded as a marriage relationship where God is the husband and we, His people, are His wife. When God explains a Godly wife, He is speaking to all of us as His bride. God describes His people throughout scripture as His wife, or bride, and Proverbs 31 is identifying the noble character God wants all of us to have as His wife. This is contrasted in scriptures such as Isaiah 54 where God is relating His people to an unfaithful wife. He wants us to understand the difference between being a bride that honors Him and a bride that dishonors Him, and he uses the imagery and place of a woman to explain the place all Christians are called to.

He who finds a wife finds a good thing and obtains favor from the Lord. Proverbs 18:22 ESV

What is an excellent wife?

Through service to her Husband, an excellent wife is trustworthy and faithful, brings peace and goodness into the marriage relationship, and honor to her Husband. This requires the wife to set priorities according to the will of God, not personal passions. We are sinful and selfish from the day sin entered the world and must all learn to cast off our selfishness to put Christ in His rightful place, and thereafter place people in their rightful order according to the will of God in our lives. Because we are naturally selfish, it is far too easy to serve ourselves first and incorrectly prioritize God and other people in our lives.

She seeks wool and flax, and works with willing hands. She is like the ships of the merchant; she brings her food from afar. She rises while it is yet night and provides food for her household and portions for her maidens. She considers a field and buys it; with the fruit of her hands she plants a vineyard. She dresses herself with strength and makes her arms strong. She perceives that her merchandise is profitable. Her lamp does not go out at night. She puts her hands to the distaff, and her hands hold the spindle. She opens her hand to the poor and reaches out her hands to the needy. She is not afraid of snow for her household, for all her household are clothed in scarlet. She makes bed coverings for herself; her clothing is fine linen and purple. Her husband is known in the gates when he sits among the elders of the land. She makes linen garments and sells them; she delivers sashes to the merchant. Strength and dignity are her clothing, and she laughs at the time to come. She opens her mouth with wisdom, and the teaching of kindness is on her tongue. She looks well to the ways of her household and does not eat the bread of idleness. Her children rise up and call her blessed; her husband also, and he praises her: “Many women have done excellently, but you surpass them all.” Charm is deceitful, and beauty is vain, but a woman who fears the Lord is to be praised. Give her of the fruit of her hands, and let her works praise her in the gates.' Proverbs 31:13-31

A Godly wife is hard-working, organized, productive, and should be resourceful and contributing to her family, her community, and the work of God. She uses talents and skills granted from God to serve God and family. She should not idly wait for people to serve her but intentionally seek to serve others. She can be trusted with life decisions, finances, and business ventures, and does it all for the benefit of her family and the glory of God - not for her own benefit and independence. A Godly wife presents herself with dignity, focuses on taking care of home and family, serving God, and caring for her community. She contributes to her family while her husband tends to the greater needs of the family and community.

The Godly wife contributes to, supports and adds to the reputation and success of her husband. As the bride of Christ we are called to contribute, also, to the reputation of God by sharing His truth, love and mercy and bearing His fruit in our lives through faith in Him. Husbands should compliment their wives behind closed doors as well as in public, and we should seek to do what will please God. The fruits of her labors should be recognized publicly as well as privately. She should present herself and speak with wisdom, dignity, and kindness. The Godly wife is God-fearing, God-focused, and God-serving in all she does, and displays the fruits of right priorities and virtues in her relationships.

'giving thanks always and for everything to God the Father in the name of our Lord Jesus Christ, submitting to one another out of reverence for Christ. Ephesians 5:20-21 ESV

Wives, submit to your own husbands, as to the Lord. For the husband is the head of the wife even as Christ is the head of the church, his body, and is himself its Savior. Now as the church submits to Christ, so also wives should submit in everything to their husbands. Husbands, love your wives, as Christ loved the church and gave himself up for her, that he might sanctify her, having cleansed her by the washing of water with the word, so that he might present the church to himself in splendor, without spot or wrinkle or any such thing, that she might be holy and without blemish. In the same way husbands should love their wives as their own bodies. He who loves his wife loves himself. For no one ever hated his own flesh, but nourishes and cherishes it, just as Christ does the church, because we are members of his body. “Therefore a man shall leave his father and mother and hold fast to his wife, and the two shall become one flesh.” This mystery is profound, and I am saying that it refers to Christ and the church. However, let each one of you love his wife as himself, and let the wife see that she respects her husband.' Ephesians 5:22-33 ESV

• Strong’s G5293: Submit - hypotássō, hoop-ot-as'-so; to subordinate; reflexively, to obey:—be under obedience, put under, subdue unto, subject, be in subjection, submit self unto.

This use of “submit” is found over 30 times in the New Testament, and is referring to the submissive relationship we are called to have with God out of respect, love and reverence for Him. As a marriage is a representation of the relationship between Christ and His Church, so is this submission between husband and wife - to be subject to Him, obedient to His will, out of love and reverence. This submission is a mutual balance where husband and wife submit one to another, as we are also called within our marriage relationship and individually to submit to Christ. Wives are called to submit all things to their husband’s leadership as the head of the family, as the Church is called to submit all things to the will and leadership of God. Husbands are called to submit themselves to their wife, offering themselves up fully in love for their wife as Christ offered Himself up for the Church, His bride, providing for all her needs and caring for her in all things. This submission is not providing an excuse for abuse, dominance, intolerance, dictatorship, tyrannical treatment, or participation in sin from either husband or wife. It is also not to be mistaken for women not being allowed to participate in decision making, or a discouragement for women to express themselves.

Likewise, wives, be subject to your own husbands, so that even if some do not obey the word, they may be won without a word by the conduct of their wives, when they see your respectful and pure conduct. Do not let your adorning be external—the braiding of hair and the putting on of gold jewelry, or the clothing you wear— but let your adorning be the hidden person of the heart with the imperishable beauty of a gentle and quiet spirit, which in God's sight is very precious. For this is how the holy women who hoped in God used to adorn themselves, by submitting to their own husbands, as Sarah obeyed Abraham, calling him Lord. And you are her children, if you do good and do not fear anything that is frightening. Likewise, husbands, live with your wives in an understanding way, showing honor to the woman as the weaker vessel, since they are heirs with you of the grace of life, so that your prayers may not be hindered. 1 Peter 3:1‭-‬7 ESV

Husbands are called to love their wives as Christ so loves His Church. Wives are called to respect their husband, in awe and reverence for him, just as we as the bride of Christ are called to respect Christ out of love and subjugation to Him. Husband and wife become one flesh and should regard one another in such a manner. We are also called to submit to our husbands, and to Christ, so that through our faith we may bring others to Him. Our faith is not merely for our own benefit, nor is it only an inward experience, but also an outward expression. It is meant to be displayed in all aspects of our character, to shine and share God's truth and light with others, planting seeds that bring them to Him as we strive to live faithfully as His bride; His excellent wife, in all we do.

So, whether you eat or drink, or whatever you do, do all to the glory of God. 1 Corinthians 10:31 ESV

Wives, submit to your husbands, as is fitting in the Lord. Husbands, love your wives, and do not be harsh with them. Children, obey your parents in everything, for this pleases the Lord. Fathers, do not provoke your children, lest they become discouraged. Bondservants, obey in everything those who are your earthly masters, not by way of eye-service, as people-pleasers, but with sincerity of heart, fearing the Lord. Whatever you do, work heartily, as for the Lord and not for men, knowing that from the Lord you will receive the inheritance as your reward. You are serving the Lord Christ. For the wrongdoer will be paid back for the wrong he has done, and there is no partiality. Colossians 3:18-25 ESV

• Strong’s G5399: Respect - phobéō, fob-eh'-o; to frighten, i.e. (passively) to be alarmed; by analogy, to be in awe of, i.e. revere:—be afraid, fear (exceedingly), reverence.

Love is patient and kind; love does not envy or boast; it is not arrogant or rude. It does not insist on its own way; it is not irritable or resentful; it does not rejoice at wrongdoing, but rejoices with the truth. Love bears all things, believes all things, hopes all things, endures all things. Love never ends. 1 Corinthians 13:4-8a ESV

If anyone destroys God’s temple, God will destroy him. For God’s temple is holy, and you are that temple. 1 Corinthians 3:17 ESV

How do these attributes translate to all followers of Christ?

Our culture is jealous, idolatrous, and materialistic and it is too easy to fall into the culture and away from the characteristics God calls on us to display. We must remember that He is the source of salvation, comfort, and all of our needs and that only He is sufficient. Things of this world will never satisfy what we truly long to satisfy. The Beatitudes are commonly applied to women, but should actually be applied to all who follow Jesus. We must dive into practical applications for each Beatitude characteristic focusing on all believers as the Bride of Christ.

But the fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness, self-control; against such things there is no law. And those who belong to Christ Jesus have crucified the flesh with its passions and desires. If we live by the Spirit, let us also keep in step with the Spirit. Let us not become conceited, provoking one another, envying one another. Galatians 5:22-26 ESV

Put on then, as God’s chosen ones, holy and beloved, compassionate hearts, kindness, humility, meekness, and patience, bearing with one another and, if one has a complaint against another, forgiving each other; as the Lord has forgiven you, so you also must forgive. And above all these put on love, which binds everything together in perfect harmony. And let the peace of Christ rule in your hearts, to which indeed you were called in one body. And be thankful. Let the word of Christ dwell in you richly, teaching and admonishing one another in all wisdom, singing psalms and hymns and spiritual songs, with thankfulness in your hearts to God. And whatever you do, in word or deed, do everything in the name of the Lord Jesus, giving thanks to God the Father through him. Colossians 3:12-17 ESV

Blessed is the man who walks not in the counsel of the wicked, nor stands in the way of sinners, nor sits in the seat of scoffers; but his delight is in the law of the Lord, and on his law he meditates day and night. Psalm 1:1-2 ESV

All followers of Jesus are called to love God above all, and love people. Our definition of love and what qualifies us as “good” does not compare to God’s definition. We must always look to God’s definition over our own, and seek to live by His Word not the world’s. Through displaying the love of God in our relationships with people we should inherently produce the fruit of the Spirit, which are vital virtues of a Christ follower. These fruits can also be translated into the Beatitudes presented by Jesus during the Sermon on the Mount.

Humility

“Blessed are the poor in spirit, for theirs is the kingdom of heaven. Matthew 5:3 ESV

• Strong’s G3107: Blessed - makários, mak-ar'-ee-os; fortunate, well-off, happy.
• Strong’s G4434: Poor - ptōchós, pto-khos'; pauper, beggar.

To be blessed in this sense is to happily be of good fortune. This is about recognizing that it is God who blesses and provides, and recognizing that His provisions are sufficient. Being poor in the spirit is to be humble; recognizing our need for God and trusting Him to provide all we need. When we humbly subject ourselves to the rule of Christ, we enter into a salvation relationship with Him and inherit the promise of eternity in Heaven. Subjecting to the rule of Christ includes to subject yourself to His provisions and trust that He truly is sufficient for all your needs.

Look at the birds of the air: they neither sow nor reap nor gather into barns, and yet your heavenly Father feeds them. Are you not of more value than they? Matthew 6:26 ESV

The reward for humility and fear of the Lord is riches and honor and life. Proverbs 22:4 ESV

Humble yourselves, therefore, under the mighty hand of God so that at the proper time he may exalt you, 1 Peter 5:6 ESV

Peace

Blessed are those who mourn, for they shall be comforted. Matthew 5:4 ESV

• Strong’s G3996: Mourn - penthéō, pen-theh'-o; to grieve, wail, grief so all encompassing that cannot be hidden, passionate lamenting.

“Those who mourn” is referring to those who are sensitive and responsive to their sin and compassionate towards others. Mourning here is to mourn a loss of something due to sin. The loss of earthly things due to sin should lead you to mourning and seeking God’s forgiveness and comfort. When we are led to Him through our mourning, it is a blessing because it strengthens our dependence on God, repentance from our sin, and peace in His comfort. God’s peace surpasses understanding and is an incredible comfort in times of mourning and distress. He will be there for us when we are hurting, will forgive us when we sin, and will always lead us back to the right path and strengthen us through the process. We must come to God in our grief because grief that does not lead you back to God will always lead you into darkness, and eventually cause spiritual death.

For everything there is a season, and a time for every matter under heaven: a time to be born, and a time to die; a time to plant, and a time to pluck up what is planted; a time to kill, and a time to heal; a time to break down, and a time to build up; a time to weep, and a time to laugh; a time to mourn, and a time to dance; a time to cast away stones, and a time to gather stones together; a time to embrace, and a time to refrain from embracing; a time to seek, and a time to lose; a time to keep, and a time to cast away; a time to tear, and a time to sew; a time to keep silence, and a time to speak; a time to love, and a time to hate; a time for war, and a time for peace. Ecclesiastes 3:1-8 ESV

Praise be to the God and Father of our Lord Jesus Christ, the Father of compassion and the God of all comfort, who comforts us in all our troubles, so that we can comfort those in any trouble with the comfort we ourselves receive from God. For just as we share abundantly in the sufferings of Christ, so also our comfort abounds through Christ. 2 Corinthians 1:3-5 ESV

For godly grief produces a repentance that leads to salvation without regret, whereas worldly grief produces death. 2 Corinthians 7:10 ESV

Meekness

“Blessed are the meek, for they shall inherit the earth. Matthew 5:5 ESV

• Strong’s G4239: Meek - praÿs, prah-ooce'; gentle, humble, meek.

The meek are those who are gentle and dependent on God rather than themselves. The meek display self-control and submission to God. Meekness equates to humility and recognition that you cannot do it on your own; we all need God in all things.

But seek first the kingdom of God and his righteousness, and all these things will be added to you. Matthew 6:33 ESV

Likewise, wives, be subject to your own husbands, so that even if some do not obey the word, they may be won without a word by the conduct of their wives, 2 when they see your respectful and pure conduct. Do not let your adorning be external the braiding of hair and the putting on of gold jewelry, or the clothing you wear but let your adorning be the hidden person of the heart with the imperishable beauty of a gentle and quiet spirit, which in God's sight is very precious. For this is how the holy women who hoped in God used to adorn themselves, by submitting to their own husbands, as Sarah obeyed Abraham, calling him lord. And you are her children, if you do good and do not fear anything that is frightening. Likewise, husbands, live with your wives in an understanding way, showing honor to the woman as the weaker vessel, since they are heirs with you of the grace of life, so that your prayers may not be hindered. 1 Peter 3:1-7 ESV

But the meek shall inherit the land and delight themselves in abundant peace. Psalm 37:11 ESV

Faithfulness

“Blessed are those who hunger and thirst for righteousness, for they shall be satisfied. Matthew 5:6 ESV

• Strong’s G1342: Righteousness - dikaiosýnē, dik-ah-yos-oo'-nay; innocent, holy, righteous, just; righteousness of God; designate the perfect agreement of God’s nature and acts in which He is the standard for all people.

To hunger and thirst for righteousness is to desire to hear and obey the will of God in faithfulness. “Those who hunger and thirst for righteousness” are those who long for true righteousness to be evident in their life, but recognize that coming into a relationship with God is the only way to satisfy their hunger and thirst. We must all recognize that only God can satisfy our needs and faithfully submit to His provisions and instructions. We also need to recognize that earthly or material wealth does not equate to the righteousness of God that we yearn for. We cannot be faithful to God if we are leaning on things of the world to satisfy our needs.

He has filled the hungry with good things, and the rich He has sent away empty. Luke 1:53 ESV

Steadfast love and faithfulness meet; righteousness and peace kiss each other. Psalm 85:10 ESV

He struck the rock so that water gushed out and streams overflowed. Can he also give bread or provide meat for his people?” Psalm 78:20 ESV

The path of the righteous is level; you make level the way of the righteous. Isaiah 26:7 ESV

Cast your burden on the Lord, and he will sustain you; he will never permit the righteous to be moved. Psalm 55:22 ESV

Compassion

“Blessed are the merciful, for they shall receive mercy. Matthew 5:7 ESV

• Strong’s G1655: Merciful - eleḗmōn, el-eh-ay'-mone; actively compassionate; of Christ as a High Priest, and those who are like God.

The merciful are those who are compassionate toward the needs of others and, out of faith, work to meet those needs. Mercy that is shown to others will also be shown to us. God gives us all that we have, even and especially our salvation through the blood of His Son, and commands us to have mercy for others as He has with us. All of us sin and fall short of the glory of God; all of us struggle. If God has mercy for us, how could we possibly think we have any right to withhold mercy for others? None of us deserve mercy, but He gives it and commands it anyway.

And her neighbors and relatives heard that the Lord had shown great mercy to her, and they rejoiced with her. Luke 1:58 ESV

For judgment is without mercy to one who has shown no mercy. Mercy triumphs over judgment. James 2:13 ESV

And should not you have had mercy on your fellow servant, as I had mercy on you? Matthew 18:33 ESV

But you, beloved, building yourselves up in your most holy faith and praying in the Holy Spirit, keep yourselves in the love of God, waiting for the mercy of our Lord Jesus Christ that leads to eternal life. And have mercy on those who doubt; save others by snatching them out of the fire; to others show mercy with fear, hating even the garment stained by the flesh. Jude 1:20-23 ESV

Holiness

Blessed are the pure in heart, for they shall see God. Matthew 5:8 ESV

• Strong’s G2513: pure - katharós, kath-ar-os - Clean, clear, pure; free from corrupt desire, from sin and guilt in reference to the heart.
• Strong’s G2588: heart - kardía, kar-dee'-ah - The heart; figuratively, thoughts or feelings; mind; the outward, outpouring of one's inner self; the seat of the soul.

“Those who are pure in heart” live a lifestyle of holiness, set apart and different from the world, including in thoughts and actions. Being pure in heart means you are intentionally pursuing purity in all areas of life. In order to be in a right relationship with God we must seek to lead a lifestyle of purity, constantly repenting and seeking for God to clean the darkness, brokenness and sin from our lives, softening our hearts to Him and His will. We all miss the mark constantly, but must live with holy intentions and a heart of repentance when we slip in order for God to purify us once again.

Create in me a clean heart, O God, and renew a right spirit within me. Psalm 51:10 ESV

He who has clean hands and a pure heart, who does not lift up his soul to what is false and does not swear deceitfully. He will receive blessing from the Lord and righteousness from the God of his salvation. Such is the generation of those who seek him, who seek the face of the God of Jacob. Psalm 24:4-6 ESV

Forgiveness

“Blessed are the peacemakers, for they shall be called sons of God. Matthew 5:9 ESV

• Strong’s G1518: Peacemakers - eirēnopoiós, i-ray-nop-oy-os; subjectively peaceable, loving peace, pacific.

Peacemakers are those who seek reconciliation, forgiveness, forbearance, and restoration of fellowship. They are those that strive to live a quiet life and be in fellowship with those around them. This includes being full of forgiveness and grace for those who have done wrong. When conflict arises, the peacemakers are those who are able to remain peaceable and level-headed with a heart of forgiveness, and also quickly recognize and repent for their own wrongs.

Whom God put forward as a propitiation by his blood, to be received by faith. This was to show God's righteousness, because in his divine forbearance he had passed over former sins. Romans 3:25 ESV

If possible, so far as it depends on you, live peaceably with all. Romans 12:18 ESV

Be kind to one another, tenderhearted, forgiving one another, as God in Christ forgave you. Ephesians 4:32 ESV

To speak evil of no one, to avoid quarreling, to be gentle, and to show perfect courtesy toward all people. Titus 3:2 ESV

But if we walk in the light, as he is in the light, we have fellowship with one another, and the blood of Jesus his Son cleanses us from all sin. 1 John 1:7 ESV

Self-Control

“Blessed are those who are persecuted for righteousness’ sake, for theirs is the kingdom of heaven. “Blessed are you when others revile you and persecute you and utter all kinds of evil against you falsely on my account. Matthew 5:10-11 ESV

To be persecuted for righteousness' sake means that your loyalty and commitment to God can not be broken even while being treated wrongly because of your faith. Patience and self-control are needed to willingly endure suffering and persecution. Being persecuted for standing firm with Christ is a blessing because He is being glorified and honored through our suffering, and our faith is being strengthened and used as a light for His good.

There is variation in degrees that people will face during persecution and there will be those who are under immense pressure and hostility. As much as we rejoice in persecution for ourselves, we also must be lifting up others who are going through their own persecution and not fearing, condemning, or judging one another's levels, intentions or even reactions to persecution. We must have the self-control to remain faithful and peaceable in our own persecution and as a response to the persecution of others.

So then, brothers, stand firm and hold to the traditions that you were taught by us, either by our spoken word or by our letter. Now may our Lord Jesus Christ himself, and God our Father, who loved us and gave us eternal comfort and good hope through grace, comfort your hearts and establish them in every good work and word. 2 Thessalonians 2:15-17 ESV

Share in suffering as a good soldier of Christ Jesus. 2 Timothy 2:3 ESV

Indeed, all who desire to live a godly life in Christ Jesus will be persecuted, 2 Timothy 3:12 ESV

Beloved, do not be surprised at the fiery trial when it comes upon you to test you, as though something strange were happening to you. But rejoice insofar as you share Christ's sufferings, that you may also rejoice and be glad when his glory is revealed. If you are insulted for the name of Christ, you are blessed, because the Spirit of glory and of God rests upon you. 1 Peter 4:12-14 ESV

Bless those who persecute you; bless and do not curse them. Romans 12:14 ESV

If we endure, we will also reign with him; if we deny him, he also will deny us; 2 Timothy 2:12 ESV

And you will be hated by all for my name's sake. But the one who endures to the end will be saved. Matthew 10:22 ESV

For the sake of Christ, then, I am content with weaknesses, insults, hardships, persecutions, and calamities. For when I am weak, then I am strong. 2 Corinthians 12:10 ESV

And they have no root in themselves, but endure for a while; then, when tribulation or persecution arises on account of the word, immediately they fall away. Mark 4:17 ESV

Therefore let those who suffer according to God's will entrust their souls to a faithful Creator while doing good. 1 Peter 4:19 ESV

Strengthening the souls of the disciples, encouraging them to continue in the faith, and saying that through many tribulations we must enter the kingdom of God. Acts 14:22 ESV

Patience

Rejoice and be glad, for your reward is great in heaven, for so they persecuted the prophets who were before you. Matthew 5:12 ESV

• Strong’s G5463: Rejoice - chaírō, khah'-ee-ro - To be cheerful, calmly happy or well-off, glad, joyful; in reference to the prospect of reward.
• Strong’s G21: - be exceeding glad - agalliáō, ag-al-lee-ah'-o - to exult, rejoice exceedingly, be exceeding glad.

Our real rewards are awaiting us in heaven and while we should appreciate the earthly blessings we are provided we should not dwell or focus on earthly things. We should rejoice over every reward we receive from God and patiently await the promise of the rewards yet to come. These rewards that we will receive will be given when believers stand before Christ and we will take those crowns that we will be given and lay them down at the feet of Jesus.

“If the world hates you, know that it has hated me before it hated you. John 15:18 ESV

“Do not lay up for yourselves treasures on earth, where moth and rust destroy and where thieves break in and steal, but lay up for yourselves treasures in heaven, where neither moth nor rust destroys and where thieves do not break in and steal. For where your treasure is, there your heart will be also. “The eye is the lamp of the body. So, if your eye is healthy, your whole body will be full of light, but if your eye is bad, your whole body will be full of darkness. If then the light in you is darkness, how great is the darkness! “No one can serve two masters, for either he will hate the one and love the other, or he will be devoted to the one and despise the other. You cannot serve God and money. Matthew 6:19-24 ESV

He will wipe away every tear from their eyes, and death shall be no more, neither shall there be mourning, nor crying, nor pain anymore, for the former things have passed away.” Revelation 21:4 ESV

they cast their crowns before the throne… Revelation 4:10b ESV

Conclusion

All of us, as the Bride of Christ, are called to live by the example of the Proverbs 31 Woman; the Excellent, Godly Wife. We must all recognize our position in our relationship with Christ and submit ourselves to His headship as wives are likewise called to submit to their husbands. We can trust Christ in the role of our husband and should likewise be trusted in the role of His wife. As such, we must recognize and live with the intention to become the bride He calls on us to be for Him, and display these attributes in our relationship with Him, in fellowship with others, and in all areas of our lives out of faith, love and reverence for Him.

But he said to me, “My grace is sufficient for you, for my power is made perfect in weakness.” Therefore I will boast all the more gladly of my weaknesses, so that the power of Christ may rest upon me. 2 Corinthians 12:9 ESV

Therefore, as you received Christ Jesus the Lord, so walk in him, rooted and built up in him and established in the faith, just as you were taught, abounding in thanksgiving. Colossians 2:6-7 ESV